Cork siblings Thomas, Anna, Rachel and Niall McCarthy lost Patrick on May 1 last year. Reeling with shock, they came home to the family farm at Ballinadee, near Kinsale – and resolved to take on a project in his memory. Thomas had to travel for 23 hours and on three flights back from Canada to be with his mother and siblings in Kinsale for the funeral Mass.
Thomas said there were no warning signs leading up to the suicide of his beloved father who was aged just 59. Paddy McCarthy was a humorous and kind husband and father who took great pride in his farm and his family. He loved Bruce Springsteen, dancing and parties, his family recalled.
Since his death, the McCarthy family has raised over €32,000 for mental health charity, Pieta House. “Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem and leaves such destruction and devastation behind for families,” Mr McCarthy’s daughter Rachel said. Appealing to people who are in emotional pain, and who offer wear psychological “masks” to disguise their difficulties, Ms McCarthy said: “There are so many people out there who can provide help.”